Database Connection Pooling: PgBouncer, ProxySQL, and Application-Level Patterns#

Database connections are expensive resources. PostgreSQL forks a new OS process for every connection. MySQL creates a thread. Both allocate memory for session state, query buffers, and sort areas. When your application scales horizontally in Kubernetes – 10 pods, then 20, then 50 – the connection count multiplies, and most databases buckle long before your application pods do.

Connection pooling solves this by maintaining a smaller set of persistent connections to the database and sharing them across many application clients. Understanding pooling options, deployment patterns, and sizing is essential for any production database workload on Kubernetes.